One Year and Two Days

So, I have officially been in Kansas City for ONE Year, and TWO Days.

Wow. Honestly, I did not think I was going to be here for that long. I thought I"d give up on this way-to-fucking-cold-in-the-winter- way-to-fucking-hot-in-the-summer town.

Nope. I'm still here, (as some song says)

Cullun is buying a new house. Well, not really a house. It's a triplex, with 3 apartment type things in it. The other two apts already have tenents that have been there for over three years. I hope they are cool, and not some redneck fuckers. I guess I"m gonna be the new "landlord figure", esp. when he figures out when he is leaving for Europe. Leanne is most likely going with him. And, Kyle's new place will be done sometime in March.

I told Cullun that as long as I'm in KC, I'll take care of his cats and the fish. Guess that makes me responsible and stuff. (ugh). LOL

I'm still holding out for California, as soon as I can find something out there. Florida is looking ok too, anywhere warm, except that FL still has the humidity factor. Oh my hair!! ;)

Speaking of Florida, Shaun and I are going to Daytona Beach next month. His parents have a timeshare there that overlooks the beach. Woah! The more I hang out with Shaun, the more I like him. Yeah, he's like 7 years younger than me, and a bit on the pessimistic side, where I"m the eternal optimist, (The glass is ALWAYS half full to me!) but he's so nice, and advernterous, and has a good job and is a responsible human being....which is what..*gasp*...I might just need.

:-)

Happy Friday!

I am somebody's girlfriend!

I have a boyfriend. Wow. That looks wierd in writing.
I met Shaun thru Cullun, actually a few months ago. He came over to our house for the Pre New Years Eve party, and faithfully remained the last person standing, (after myself, of course).
The next night, he ended up coming to my friends New Years Eve house party because he didn't have any other plans. I certainly did not think that this "one time" hookup would be anything other than it was, but we had a good time at the party, and Sunday night, NY Day, I went over to his house after showering and such and just hung out. We've been hanging out almost every day since.
He's 7 years younger than me though. I generally tend to gravitiate towards older men. But now I"m the older woman. LOL.
He constantly impresses me with how open he is, b/c if you first met him you would just think he's some "normal" guy....software engineer, watches football and drinks beer, not generally my type, as I like a little more spontanity, tattoos, etc etc.
I purposely did not invite him to the Fetish show that I went to last Saturday, only to have it come up in converstaion the night before at an art gallery we were touring with some of my friends. He goes, "I want to go to that, sounds fun". Enjoying the vision of a "date" to a fetish show, I invited him to come, and he had such a great time! (Even learned a little too, if ya know what i mean....;)

ooops, ran out of time, it's 4:55 Friday. I"m outta here, will finish this later.
peace

Ok, now it's almost 2 on Monday. I'm so tired at work. I'ts MLK day, and i'ts just me and one other guy in the office. I actually fell asleep on my desk for like 1/2 hour before the phone rang and woke me up.

OK OK I GET IT!

Please Andrea, Please stop thinking about it. Accept what happens and move on....

If this is the way it happens, then well, it was meant to be.

Just accept it and move on!

It WILL BE OK!!

:)